1. Not forgiving others […]

  2. Not forgiving yourself […]

  3. All-or-none thinking […]

  4. Holding others to a higher standard than you hold yourself […]

  5. Believing that things will never get better […]

  6. Believing you have less control over your life than you really do […]

  7. Believing the myth of arrival […]

  8. Overgeneralizing […]

  9. Not practicing gratitude […]